How many times have you been in the company of a lady, whether its just a first date or a wife of several years, and you may be in a public place, a café, a major event, a BBQ etc, and something catches your eye. Another woman. Your not an uncouth person, you are normally very respectful, especially to your other half….and then you find your mind distracted by another lady with a outstanding nice body, or stunning facial features…you sort of just get lost in the moment…then you ‘wake up’, find that your other is watching you ‘noticing’ the other person. What did you do? did you pretend nothing happened, or make a comment to try to undo the damage? Myself I kept my mouth shut and pretend it didn’t happen. What did she do? pretend nothing happened, or make a comment to give you the guilt trip? When I have been sprung, I got a reminder of my ‘infidelity’.