iv had an on again off again relationship with this guy for about a year. we've been good friends for about 9 years and i dont like seeing him hurt. hes too trusting. his ex ended up with over a $1000 worth of stuff from him, cheated on him with god knows how many guys and then dumped him. we ended up back together about a month after that. i lent him $400 to pay for a dog and he was going to pay me back in a couple of days, then his ex tells him shes pregnant with his baby. did i mention hes the type that wants marriage and kids. the girls dad built him a tray for his ute and was doing it for free until he found out his daughter is pregnant so now he wants $3000 for it which means im not getting my money back for a long time if ever and i get dumped. i dont like relationships because i dont like spending that much time with people, i dont do the cuddly lovestruck thing, and i run away screaming with the whole commitment thing. what pisses me off though is i actually liked this guy. i dont get to go pig hunting or shooting now because his ex is rellay jealous.