So ive been feeling bummed the past couple of days ever since i found out that there may be a chance that my gf has been cheating on me....its complicated so i'll try and explain, but fcuk me if i dont feel like a detective! First things first, her parents doesnt know about us, but her mum has met me. Second, im 19, shes 16. Parents reckon im too old so we've tried to keep it secret from them for the past 5 months. I've had my suspicisions for about a month now because a friend of mine talked to her mum about me, and her mum mentioned that she already has a bf (different name). So when i heard this from my friend i thought....hmm, ive heard that name before in the background when i called her up. Friend of hers asked if that was the guy (not me), she replied no and then a slight pause before her friend in the background said "oh....ok". So this is where it started. I asked her about this guy and she said it was an ex-bf that shes pretending to go out with so her mum isnt so suspicious of us. Now ive found out that shes been seen with this guy and are very "public" about what they do...with each other. Last piece of evidence! I only see her on sundays now, due to the fact that i work late during the week and cant get to my karate lessons (yes i forgot to mention that lol), so i only see her at state training. I always try and see if i can call her up some time during the week, i set a time and she says thats fine, ill talk to u then. I'd call up and she wouldnt pick up. Next day i get a message saying that her phone was taken off her (strict parents!). Now usually thats fine because its happened before, but she has it taken off her for a week, not just overnight. But this has been happening more often now whenever i ask to call her up. I think shes using it as an excuse, what do u think my dear Watson? So, i devised a plan to comfirm my suspicisions. I wrote her an email (since she apparently never wants to talk) asking whats really going on and if we still have anything and that im losing feelings for her. I thought to myself, if she replies in the way ive predicted, then theres something going on. Guess what, she does and its the same thing she writes everytime "Im sorry i got my phone taken off and i want u to know that i will always love no matter what happens" ....bullsh!t is what i call it because she didnt answer my question! So i wrote back "You still didn't answer my question.... and if your serious about anything you'll tell me whats going on 'in person' because i know more than u think." Hopefully this will scare the bejesus out of her if she is cheating on me, and if she replies properly then she might be telling the truth, but i just dont trust her anymore. Sorry for the long post but i need advice on this...does it seem like shes cheating on me? Ive told my mates and they say the evidence is stacked up against her, but then again, this is bias evidence.