My fiancee has ( Had ) started showing some limited interest in riding albeit, as a pillion. so one day i took her out riding to yarra valley and man it was painfull. first every time i braked she just leant on me hence putting a lot of pressure on my wrists. second she could not work out how to sit and contantly banged my helmet with hers. at corners if i wanted to go right she went left and the bike went straight. we managed to reach some understanding about moving with the bike after a few non serious incidents. so just throwing it out there how should one ride with a pillion????