Ok apolagies up front but personal vent, probably only realy understood by those of us that have been divorced/seperated after a long term marrige (20 years for me)/relationship. Have you ever wondered why we bother with the oposite sex? (apart from the obvious). OK she 30, 3 youngish kids. Me 43, 2 grown up kids. I know, i know i'm 43 and should know better than to expect a 30yo to have half a brain, BUT after a 12 month relationship how is it MY fault she's been seeing some one else for last 3 or 4 months and she 'loves' him but they cant stand each others kids???? Geez she could have at least told me 3 months ago, i could have spent more weekends riding instead of doing shit with her Grrrr i swear LAST time i ever put my heart and sole in to a relationship. Well till next time :? God i hate it, think i'll go have another beer. Oh if this is unapropriate for the forum just delete it.